I have a 2 month old, how can I get my husband to cope and gain patience?

My husband is very helpful when it comes to feedings and changes. But when my son crys He goes crazy, Starts yelling at the baby. i.e. "Will you Just Shut the helll up?" He also starts throwing or kicking things. He has never showed this fustration or anger before. He is very loving. He never yells at me. He says he gets fustrated because he can't make him stop crying, and he doesn't know what's wrong. He says he feels like a bad father because he can't help with the crying. Is this normal for a first time father,Feeling inadequate?