How do you feel about D/s and M/s?

well, being dominant is a lot of responsibility. my experience is that after a few years, the dominant person doesn't want to take all the responsibility anymore and will start trying to get the submissive to make decisions. excessive domination interferes with the relationship because the submissive gets to know the dominant well, but how will the dominant find out about the submissive? these things are more complex than you realize.